Sis—What Color is the Light?!
35 Signs to Pay Attention to Before Saying "I Do"
$16.99
Before you say, “I do,” make sure you know what color the light really is.
Sis...What Color Is the Light?!: 35 Signs to Pay Attention to Before Saying “I Do” is a practical, faith-filled relationship guide that helps women recognize healthy relationship patterns, warning signs, and deal-breakers before making one of life’s most important decisions. Using the familiar red, yellow, and green traffic-light analogy, Jackie Denise equips readers to know when to stop, proceed with caution, or confidently move forward in dating, relationships, and marriage.
Blending biblical wisdom, real-life experiences, practical tools, thought-provoking questions, and a healthy dose of humor, Jackie tackles everything from godly relationship qualities and emotional manipulation to narcissistic behaviors, self-deception, discernment, and learning to trust God’s direction over emotions. Readers will discover the 35 Cs of a Godly Relationship, self-assessments, reflection exercises, and encouraging insights designed to strengthen emotional health, deepen spiritual growth, and build confidence for making wise relationship decisions.
Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, married, divorced, widowed, or courageously beginning again, this book will challenge you to trade confusion for clarity, fear for faith, and unhealthy relationship patterns for God’s very best. And married couples, don’t skip this book thinking you’ve already crossed the finish line! Think of it as your annual relationship checkup. Pull it off the shelf every year or two and ask yourselves, Are we still communicating well? Are we protecting our friendship? Have we allowed the busyness of life to crowd out the little things that first brought us together? Strong marriages aren’t built because two people found perfect love—they’re built because two imperfect people keep choosing each other with love, grace, and intentionality.
More than a dating guide, Sis...What Color Is the Light?! is a roadmap to wisdom, healing, hope, and lasting transformation. It will help you recognize relationship signals with greater confidence, embrace your God-given worth, and trust the One who sees every curve, detour, and destination ahead. So, Sis, when the light is finally green, you’ll know it’s time to move forward—not with fear or uncertainty, but with wisdom, peace, and the confidence to thrive in every season of life.